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Hanging Out With The Wrong Friends


We all have friends we adore and love but not all of them have our best interest at heart. By best interest I mean, friends who will challenge or motivate you to aim for the best in your life.
There are a lot of people (friends)we hang out with in life who are not good for us physically, spiritual and emotionally. They drain the last energy in us, and although we have great fun with them, we have the best party time with them, but honestly, they are not our good friends at all.
Why?? Because they do not push us positively to aim higher in life. These are friends are friends we party with, smoke with and chase women and men with. If it never bothers any of them to ask you or cause you think about taking new directions in your life in a positive sense, not even for a day, please move away from them. Do not go close to them. They are worst to your life than poison. They can send you to an early grave without you even  knowing.
You don't want to be 70 years old , broke, with no house, no business, no children and no safety retirement plan and no wealth creation  plan  to take care of you and your generation.

You spend all your   energetic years with friends and families who never even criticised what you were doing wrong. Not even once.  They were afraid to speak the truth to your face because, perhaps you were the richest and smartest among them,  sitting on your high horse and feeling proud and arrogant that you know it all, so everybody should just be quiet and let you be.

You are digging your way to an early grave, my dear friend. So wise up!!! You call truth lies and exhalt the lies as pure truth. Do you think your sycophant friends are helping you?? Think again, because they are not.

When was the last time your so-called "best friend" asked you about your plans for the future. Where you want to be as a person... your goals for your family, children, job or your spiritual life.
Do you have friends who love to receive, receive receive from you and never give? Watch yourself with them, for you may become bitter and selfish over time, if you are also not given something in return.
A wise man once told me this, and I am sharing with you today.

He said; You are exactly the same person as the first five friends you associate with. This means if five of your friends are drug addicts and low-lives, you will also be a drug addict and a low-life too.  Bad friendships they say, corrupt a good character.
So come out from your bad friendships, and find some good positive friends who can influence you and your life in a positive way.

Come out from abusive relationships, whether it's a love relationship between a husband and wife, or a one-time best friend kind of relationship turn sour lately.

If you are always beaten, kicked around like a football, and your partner makes you feel like a public enemy number one, please come out from this relationship my dear one. For your love and affection is tolerated not celebrated.
Make a smart choice to save your life and preserve your dignity.

Come out from pessimistic friends, friends who see everything in life as negative and impossible to do in life. They will drag you back and way from your life purpose. They will not help you move forward. Bond with optimists and believers, achievers and mentors..
People who are where you aspire to be in future.
Time is whisking away so fast like a fleeting wind, so do something about your friends, acquittances and partners before they send you quickly to an early grave.


Kwame Sarpong |  Freelance Writer: 
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