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Many of us today did  trust in other people blindly  so much that we never thought they will do us any wrong or betray us, but they did.

They took advantage of our naivety and our complete believe in them to control and manipulate us into getting what they want from us, after that,  they left us alone in the cold. All because we trusted them.We were naive to trust in the wrong people. Period!

On the other hand, we were the ones people trusted so much and yet we let them down and disappointed them.
To their suprise, they may have been expecting the disappointment and the betrayal to come from a complete stranger they don't know, but it came from us.

We all at one point in our lives have been victims and offenders in this game of trust.

It is better to tell a bitter truth to a person you love so he can cope in difficult situation in life and be self reliant and independent in all things than to tell a sweet lie that will cause someone to depend on you or trust you completely because you gave an exaggerated assurance that you can help or you can be trusted.
In simple words, let your Yes be a Yes and your No be a No.
That way you will be seen to be more trustworthy, reliable and transparent in all your affairs.
Often times, we take our words and promises lightly but if only we knew, they have the tendancy to make or break relationships. To you, who easily trust and place confidence in people because they seem to be very nice, friendly and helpful towards you, becareful!

People can be mean and manipulative sometimes especially if they are pushed against a wall with no options. They might give you up to save themselves at one point if the need arises. As humans, we all have self instincts, so don't be so naive to put your trust in people too much else you will be disappointed when you least expect.
Appearances of people can be deceptive.

To guard your heart and strengthen your mind, learn to be objective in your thinking and in assessing people. Be truthful and honest with everyone. And put on the mindset of a devil's advocate all the time;
The same people who are cheering me today, will be the same people to ridicule me if I am to fail or fall. This should be your backup.
Life isn't fair as we all have come to know by now.
Don't put your trust in anybody just anyhow.
We all have our heavy burdens in life to carry.
I hope this message helps people dealing with trust issues and dealing with the pains of a broken heart. I pray you can find closure in these words whoever you are.

Kwame Sarpong |  Freelance Writer: 
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