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Do Unto Others


Whatever things you love to be done to you or you expect from others, do same for others also. If you expect people to be honest with you about things and not lie to you for example, be honest with them too.
If you wish you had more.... wish others have more too.
Everybody  expects to be treated well  these days, but we don't want to treat other people just the way we wish to be treated.
How ironic!!!!
We  are always looking forward or expect to be loved but we don't show love to one another or support one another with genuine love. How can we then demand from others what we never give them in return. We complain of the world being evil and unforgiving, when we are the same people who create that world.
We disappoint people who put their trust and confidence in us, we hate the very people who tell us the truth all the time. We don't even want to get closer to people who are nothing like us, people we feel are below us.
We stab people who help us in the back and we do not want to forgive others, and yet we expect to be forgiven when we do wrong

How can we expect the world and our society to be any better if we treat ourselves this way. It is a big shame on us that we have expectations for good things when we ourselves don't meet the same expectations.
Yes, indeed,  life is hard and can be difficult sometimes. But the little good we do for our close family members, friends and strangers can go a long way to make their lives a little bit better. No matter how small.
Let's be mindful that we get the same measure of reward we give others, good or bad.

There is no way we are going to get any reward of good if we have not invested any good in others. And let's not act surprised either if we get bad rewards in return in our lives because we treated others badly.
The law of cause and effect. Don't forget.
Always remember this, what is good goose is good for the gander too.

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