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Understanding Why We Do Good/Show Kindness

Let us not do good or be kind to other people because it makes us feel good, but because it is the right thing to do and needs to be done.

As humans, natutally, we want so much to be appreciated for our good works  or to receive praises or  recognition from others.

As we celebrate Christmas, do an act of good to somebody, show kindness to a stranger but when you do, don't expect anything else in return. And just watch how your life will turn around in the coming year of 2020.

Remember,  the good or the act of kindness that is remembered throughout generations are the ones we do  out of sacrifice not out of convenience.

*Kwame Sarpong*

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