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Build Up Your Own Man


He was having his supper today in his office
That was when a female co-worker  joined him.
Hi there handsome, you're really looking good today. You're looking so fine I can eat you up, she said.

I thought I have told you several times to stay away from me woman. I'm a married man. Can you respect that at least?
Oh come on, don't be shy, I won't bite. Just try me tonight. I've been admiring your cuteness in this office for so long. I can't hide my feelings for you anymore. You really turn me on she said, have I told you that? Take me anywhere you want tonight handsome and just have fun with me all you like. I'm all yours tonight baby boy. Can we go now?? She asked.
No. I'm not going anywhere with you tonight or tomorrow. I'm married and besides you are nothing like my wife. You're not even half the woman my wife is.
You girls of today are very lazy, you think sex, beauty, great body shape and curves are all it takes to get a man. Don't you??
Well, sorry to disappoint you but you are very wrong. It takes a lot more than that.
Angry and ashamed, the lady shouted, how dare you call me lazy?? I'm a highly educated woman living a comfortable life and wealthy enough, which you know already.
Fair enough,  let me ask you this; would you sacrifice everything you have just to make me the man I am today?? I'm very sure you see me to be a very successful guy. You see my designer suit collections, my Rowlex watch and my white Range Rover Evoque parked right Infront of us
Did you ask me where all those things came from before you approached me??
No. I didn't bother to ask you the first time. The woman said. Why does all this matter?? No matter what you say, I'm still going to hunt you down handsome. You're only playing hard to get but you will be mine because I know you can't resist my sexy curves and looks. Am I not the chick of your dreams?? Don't you fantasize about having sex with me in your mind many times over? Stop talking nonsense and let's go have just a one-night stand. I'm feeling horny for you. No other man but you.
I will repeat young lady. I won't go anywhere with you. Like I was saying all the finer things you see, the cars, the expensive suits and shirts I wear all came from my wife.
She gave up everything and sacrificed a lot to help me this far when I was just starting up as an apprentice in my uncle's furniture shop. She took out a loan from a bank on her monthly government teaching job salary to invest in my little furniture business until I was able to raise enough money to expand my business. You see, I love and adore her because she spent good years staying faithful to me and supporting me when I had nothing.
Young lady, will  you be patient and willing enough to do same for any man.?? I see you have been turning down the proposals and advances from most of the single guys around here and chasing after married men like us
Do you know what it takes to love someone and sacrifice something for them for the sake of that love?
Let me tell you one secret, you women have a God-given gift of nurturing (taking care) and helping grow anything a man hands to you and growing it into something bigger and attractive. Just like the good work my wife has done with me today. Find your gift too. It's in there somewhere inside you and find a young man who you yourself can see worthy of your love and sacrifice and nurture him to greatness.
Wow!!! That's really true. I can learn a lot from your wife. I guess I need to find my own husband and build him up  just like you are saying.
I'm glad you get me now. Remember, there's no glory in victory without sacrifice. Even in love relationships.
I wish you all the best of luck my dear!!!!

*Kwame Sarpong*

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