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Comparing Your Life To Others

Do not compare yourself to others, if you do so, you are only insulting yourself and the person God created you to be.
People's lives are way different than we imagine them to be. Those people we may assume are comfortable in life, may  actually be having difficulties on their own they may be dealing with which we may not see or they may not tell us. Sometimes they may be trying to live a fake life outside their true selves on social media and outside their private lives. And we may be envying them or  hating our present lives for nothing.
Everyone has a black spot in their white linen clothes.
So before you think or assume your life is not perfect or great, and  wish you also had a better life  that somebody's having, stop and love yourself first. No one has a perfect life. Everyone is going through a difficult time in their lives. Stop comparing your life to others. Focus on your life, work on yourself and embrace everything this life has to teach you, both good and bad.

Focus on your life!!!!!

*Kwame Sarpong*

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