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Painful Truths in Life You Have To Learn By Yourself


Your bullies will never stop bulling you in life until you hurt them

No body cares about  you as a person, only what you can do for them

You have to appear as though you are the lamb, but be the serpent behind it

To be merciful to your enemies is to be unkind to yourself

You only ever truly know somebody, when you fight them, you only truly know yourself when you fight.

Your success is many other people’s failure

If you never learn some form of martial arts, the day somebody breaks into your home will be the worst day of your life

Ignoring your physical health will eventually catch up to you

• Never be willing to lose something or anything easily that is  worth fighting for.

Your most important asset is your health, once that goes everything else goes away from you.

You are 99.99999% ignorant about everything and this is an understatement.

Progress in life happens little by little

Making money is easy, keeping money that is where the real challenge is.

It is much easier to attain and achieve than it is to maintain

The worst kind of vice is advice

Sometimes you are the only one who has the right answer

Everybody wants to succeed, usually this means everybody wants you to fail as well.

The better you look the worse those around you look, this is why it is cold and very lonely at the top for successful people.

Better you meet a life partner when you still poor than when you are already rich.

Some drugs are addictive, some drugs make you violent and some drugs can turn into a Zombie.

Not all drugs are good, some of them are great.

Enjoy life, however, best you can, it passes in a blink of an eye, time goes and goes and goes.

• The people you love and trust most will most likely be the ones to betray and stab you in the back. Watch your company.

• Misery loves company.. watch the  people you sell your problems to when you are sad or down. Most people don't really care. 99% of the people may actually be happy you are in mess.

The problem is, you think you have time. But you don't.

• Time does not heal our sorrows or corrects our mistakes in life. It reveals it. Be careful how you treat and use your time.

• A true friend or partner is the one who knows all your secrets and flaws but still pushes to help you  succeed. Who is in your circle?

• Life appears greener on the other side when you are busy looking at it from other people's windows instead of yours. Focus on your life.

• Kindness is the only human act that returns to you kindly and in good measure if you practice it.

• We can never run away from death or God's judgement at the end. Everything we value here on earth will mean nothing to us one day. Do not look down on anyone.


*Kwame Sarpong*
Freelance Writer

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