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Change Your Words Change Your Life


Our brain while listening to words uses two separate areas to identify the mood and the real meaning of the words. Words are passed to the left temporal lobe of the brain for processing, and intonation is channelled to the right side of the brain, a region more stimulated by music.

Do not speak negatively about yourself, not even as a joke. You know why?? Because your brain and body doesn't know the difference.
Words have energy and they cast spells on your body.
Change the way you speak to yourself, change the way you speak about your life.
What you are not changing in your life with positivity, you are actually choosing it to remain the same.

How do you change negative words??

*Speak to Yourself*

It directly influences how you experience things in life.
Our words play an important part in shaping our existence, so if your internal self-talk is negative, your external experiences will most likely be negative as well.


*Start with a small shift*

Replace just one word that will transform the way you experience something “negative.” This is how you create a choice instead of a habitual reaction.
These small changes in your vocabularygive you the power to change your experiences in life by lowering the intensity of negative emotions to the point where they no longer control you.

*Control your emotions with your words*

The words we attach to our experience become our experience.
Words have a biochemical effect on the body. For example, if you use a word like “devastated,” you’re going to produce a very different biochemical effect than if you say, “I’m a bit disappointed.”

*Don't entertain swear words*

By definition, swear words are offensive.  If a word, over time, ceases to be offensive, then it falls out of use as a swear word.
We will often use swear words to vent some emotion. Swearing also centers on taboos. Around the world, swear words will tend to cluster around certain topics: lavatorial matters, sex, religion.


*Give Power To Your Words*

Words inspire, words inform, and words can destroy - if we let them.

The martial arts will teach you not to react to other’s problems, but to pay attention to your own. Learn not to react to words that are meant for harm.

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